by Ed Vitagliano | Journal Staff Writer
The conflict over sex education in public schools is one of the most bitterly contested battles of the culture war, frequently dividing state legislatures, communities and local school boards.

Nothing is simple or clear-cut when it comes to the problems that sex education is meant to solve: sexual activity among teens and the myriad of consequences resulting from it. Neither are there simple answers when it comes to choosing which perspective on sex ed is most useful – that of the “safe sex” crowd, which relies on the use of condoms, or the promoters of abstinence.

However, in the battle over what to teach kids about sex in school, our culture may be missing the obvious: the best place may be off school grounds entirely.

Abstinence to the rescue?
That is not to say that there shouldn’t be a debate on the success of abstinence programs in the school. And there is room for debate. To be fair, the research on abstinence-only education has not demonstrated its effectiveness beyond all doubt.

For example, in a cover story on abstinence, Newsweek spot-lighted the data gathered by researcher Stan Weed, who examined four abstinence-only programs in Virginia. Weed found that two of the programs reduced the rate of teens losing their virginity by 65%, while the other two appeared to have no effect.

The difficulty in appraising the value of some abstinence programs, however, may be due to the fact that not all abstinence messages are the same. While some books and materials teach kids how to remain abstinent until marriage, others reflect the belief that abstinence refers only to a lack of intercourse. Such materials recommend “outercourse” (having sexual encounters while fully clothed) and even mutual masturbation as part of their abstinence message.

Nevertheless, study results are beginning to tip the scales in favor of abstinence education. Two years ago the American Journal of Sociology published a government-funded study on teens pledging to remain abstinent. Researchers from Columbia and Yale universities found that adolescents who pledged to remain abstinent actually delayed their first intercourse for three years longer than teens who did not make such a pledge.

According to World magazine, even the Alan Guttmacher Institute, which is the research arm of Planned Parenthood, has been forced, at times, to admit that abstinence works. Its own research found that an abstinence program in Atlanta public schools reduced sexual initiation rates among 8th-graders for both boys (by 60%) and girls (95%).

In April of this year the Physicians Consortium, a coalition of state-based physicians groups representing more than 2,000 practicing doctors, published a four-year study on abstinence in the Journal of Adolescent and Family Health. The study examined data pertaining to the drop in the birth and pregnancy rates of teens between 1991-1995, and found that “abstinence accounted for 100% of the decline in the teen birth rate and 67% of the decline in the pregnancy rate to single teens” during that time frame.

What really matters
Beyond what kids are taught in school, however, is what they are taught at home and church. According to a growing body of research, parents and religious beliefs are a potent one-two combination when it comes to influencing a teen’s decisions about whether or not to have sex.

A study conducted at Fordham University, for example, established a relationship between the strength of a college freshman’s religious faith and sexual experimentation. The study, published in a 2000 issue of the Journal of Adolescence, found that students “who strongly identify with religious teachings and traditions” were “less likely to engage in … sexual activity.”

Another study performed at the University of Otago in New Zealand demonstrated the same relationship. Examining the data collected from over 1,000 men and women, researchers could not find any differences between 21-year-olds who were abstinent and those who had become sexually active – except one: religious faith. According to The Family in America, the study found that “persistent religious involvement showed the strongest relationship with abstinence.”

Pat Ware of the National Campaign to Prevent Teen Pregnancy agreed. Citing a report released by that organization, Ware said, “We found that religion plays a very positive role in the lives of young people – what we call a ‘protective factor.’ The more frequently a young person attends worship services, the more likely that person is to delay sexual involvement.”

A study released this year by the National Institutes of Health (NIH) also found this link. According to an NIH press release, the study found that “religion reduces the likelihood of adolescents engaging in early sex by shaping their attitudes and beliefs about sexual activity.” The reason? The NIH said it was “largely because their religious views lead them to view the consequences of having sex negatively.”

On the other hand, the study found that, “for both girls and boys, more permissive attitudes – meaning more positive or favorable – toward sex increased the likelihood that they would have sex.”

Factoring permissive attitudes into this equation leads to what is perhaps the most critical determinant for teenage sexuality: the involvement of parents. A study published in the Alan Guttmacher Institute’s Family Planning Perspectives showed that parents can best keep their teens from becoming sexually active by doing three things: maintaining a warm and loving relationship with their children; letting teens know that they are expected to abstain from sex until marriage; and avoiding the discussion of birth control.

Psychology professor James Jaccard of State University of New York at Albany and his fellow researchers found that each of these factors by themselves doubled the chance that a teen would abstain from sex. But parents who did all three influenced their kids so strongly that their teenagers were twelve-and-a-half times more likely to remain virgins.

Two studies published last year in the Journal of Adolescent Health found a similar relationship between parent-teen relationships and teen sex. In one study, researchers at the University of Minnesota examined data from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, a regular federal survey involving tens of thousands of American teens. The results showed that girls who had been close to their mothers – and whose moms clearly articulated parental disapproval about teen sex – were more likely to avoid or at least postpone sexual activity than those girls who felt less connected with their moms. (The effect of fathers on those girls was not examined by either study.)

The other study, conducted in 2000 and also based upon National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health data, showed comparable results. The research determined that the moms of girls who were still virgins tended to know where their daughters were when not at home, knew their daughter’s friends, and insisted on things like shared family mealtimes.

Commenting on the corresponding conclusions reached by a government study released in 2000, U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention psychologist Daniel Whitaker said, “A lot of parents are afraid to talk [to their kids about sex] because they think they might say the wrong thing. But this suggests you should try to communicate your beliefs openly.”

Parental involvement in teaching their kids about sex may even increase the effectiveness of abstinence-only classes taught in school. Researchers, led by Susan M. Blake of the George Washington University Medical School, split more than 350 eighth-graders into two groups. One received five abstinence-only sex education classes in school, while the other received the same instruction in school plus sexuality homework assignments to be completed with parental help. According to USA Today, the results, published in Family Planning Perspectives, showed that the kids receiving parental assistance said they felt more prepared to resist sexual pressure and indicated a firmer desire to remain abstinent than the other group of teens.

In fact, some of the most successful abstinence-only approaches actually teach kids more than simply, “Just say no to sex.” In addition to a strong abstinence message, these programs are teaching character, self-discipline and responsibility, and giving them information on how to make commitments and resist pressure. (See AFA Journal, 5/03.) These are the very things kids would presumably be learning from involved parents.

Studies such as these indicate that parents who are involved in their kids’ lives, and who confidently transmit their religious and moral values to their children, have the greatest success in preventing risky and immoral behavior.

That reality may mean that the battles being fought in public schools over sex education, while important, may be missing the point. Questions about sex outside marriage flow directly from issues of morality – and those are best handled in the two places best equipped to do so: the home and church.



 

‘SAFE SEX’ –RUSSIAN ROULETTE
When they dabble in sexual dalliances in their teenage years, the toll on the physical, emotional and spiritual lives of young people can be enormous. And the price tag is not simply a personal one. Entire families share the burdens of teen pregnancies, government and medical costs proliferate, and an entire culture faces the repercussions of virtually unrestricted access to abortion mills.

And then there are the diseases. According to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), about 25% of sexually active teenagers get a sexually transmitted disease (STD) every year, and 80% of infected teens don’t even know they have an STD, passing the diseases along to unsuspecting partners. When it comes to AIDS, the data is even more chilling: of the new HIV infections each year, about 50% occur in people under the age of 25. (See “Infecting our Kids” at right.)

The most common approach in public schools to the problems of teenage sexuality and its consequences is to advocate that, if kids are going to have sex, they should be encouraged to have “safe sex” – that is, use condoms. But does the use of condoms make sex safe – or even safer?

The simple answer is that condoms do make sex safer for some things, but not others – and “safe” actually becomes a relative term. According to the Food and Drug Administration, for example, when condoms are typically used, they prevent pregnancy 86% of the time. That means, roughly speaking, that even when using condoms, a couple will become pregnant one out of every 10 times they have intercourse. That may indeed be safer sex (than not using a condom at all) – but it is still a gamble.

The issue becomes even more muddled when the topic is STDs. For some diseases, wearing a condom may provide some protection. That’s may, as in guesswork, because the scientific community can present little concrete evidence of condom effectiveness when it comes to preventing STD infections.

“Condoms may be effective in preventing transmission of HIV/AIDS and, in some cases, transmission of gonorrhea in men, but beyond that they do not protect adequately against other sexually transmitted diseases,” said Claude Allen, deputy secretary of the Department of Health and Human Services.

Even in the case of HIV, however, the definition of “protection” may be in the eyes of the beholder. The CDC considers condoms 85% effective in preventing the transmission of HIV – something akin to the odds of playing Russian Roulette with a revolver.

One of the most vigorous promoters of “safe sex,” the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS), is forced to sound downright vague when it discusses condoms and STDs on its SIECUS Fact Sheet: The Truth About Condoms.

“Condoms can be expected to provide different levels of risk reduction for different STDs,” it says. “There is no definitive study about condom effectiveness for all STDs. Definitive data are lacking on the degree of risk reduction that latex condoms provide for some STDs; for others, the evidence is considered inconclusive.”

That’s not exactly a firm foundation for an entire approach to teen sex.

Even worse, however, is the fact that SIECUS simply refuses to admit the possibility that the safe sex approach should be given an in-depth reappraisal. Immediately following the above admission, the Fact Sheet quotes the CDC: “It is important to note that the lack of data about the level of condom effectiveness indicates that more research is needed – not that latex condoms do not work.”

This shows how far ideology has contaminated not only interest groups like SIECUS, which is to be expected, but even a supposedly science-based government agency like the CDC. If “more research is needed,” as the CDC admits, then why don’t government, health and educational entities call a moratorium on safe sex education – which relies solely on the efficacy of condom usage – until the research is completed? Why risk the health and lives of teenagers in the meantime?

Moreover, for some STDs, such as human papillomavirus (HPV), an incurable disease linked to cervical cancer, condoms may provide no protection at all, because the virus is often on areas of the skin exposed during sexual intercourse but not covered by a condom. With 20 million Americans already infected with HPV – and 5.5. million new infections reported every year – the disease is nothing short of a sexually transmitted epidemic. According to Dr. David Hager of the University of Kentucky School of Medicine, some studies suggest that 40% to 45% of college co-eds have tested positive for HPV.

Dr. John Whiffen of the National Physicians Center, a group of 400 doctors that is recommending abstinence as the sole approach to sex education, told Fox News that condoms are completely ineffective against six common STDs.

“To tell a child that a condom is going to protect them [against STDs] when it actually offers less than a 50% chance of protecting them is simply not a good argument,” Whiffen said.

Nevertheless, it’s an argument that SIECUS and its ilk continue to make.

INFECTING OUR KIDS
According to Dr. Margaret J. Meeker in her new book, Epidemic: How Teen Sex is Killing Our Kids, evidence from scientific studies shows that:

8000
U.S. teens are diagnosed with an STD every day.

80%
of teens who have an STD are unaware thay are infected.

46%
of teen girls become infected with an STD during their first sexual encounter.

30
different STDs infect millions of kids ages 12 to 18

20%
of Americans age 12 and older test positive for genital herpes.

15 million
Americans are infected with a new STD each year – about 66% of those infections occur in people under age 25.